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Mentoring Wisdom
Those who seek mentoring will rule the great expanse under heaven.
Mentoring is mostly about small victories and subtle changes.
The number one indicator of success for a child is a good relationship with a nurturing adult.
But remember this: in the final analysis, you can believe in your dream, you can be taught, supported, motivated and loved by others, but, ultimately, your success depends on you. You must take responsibility for your body, your mind, and for your character.
Never work for money or for power. They won't save your soul or build a decent family or help you sleep at night.
Henry James' nephew, the son of William James, once asked the great and thoughtful novelist what he ought to do with his life, how he ought to live it. The nephew received this advice: Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.
Mentoring is a brain to pick, an ear to listen, and a push in the right direction.
Let us sing a new song not with our lips but with our lives.
Long talks with trusting and trustworthy adults who know a lot about the world and who like young people, and opportunities to learn new skills.
Listening is where love begins: listening to ourselves and then to our neighbors.
Nothing is more contagious as an example. We never go great good or great evil without bringing about more of the same on the part of others.
Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.
No one's ever been successful without having a goal – and a plan for how to achieve it.
Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.
Successful people turn everyone who can help them into sometime mentors.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined.
Those having torches will pass them to others.
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